Later, I kept seeing the news that Uncle Lori was in love. Gao Xiaosong, his post-8 wife, Yang Zhenning, and Weng Fan, regardless of their love in public, I felt that no one must know the bitterness behind them.
People will say that even if uncle is not in love with his peers, there must be various contradictions. I admit that when making a choice, I would rather choose the contradictions of my peers than the contradictions of my uncles, because the gap between reality is too big.
Some people will say that Lori is certainly not suitable for others, and those girls with strong hearts and precocious maturity may be suitable. I don’t deny this possibility, so you can make yourself a royal sister. It is estimated that you will not be an uncle but a fresh boy by then.
I often hear a girl say that she wants to find a man who can control herself, and when she can really control her, she will definitely complain that she is not given a reason.
Growing up is a compulsory course for everyone. Finding an uncle to marry is more or less encouraging. No matter how good a man is, it seems that he has lost the pleasure of growing up. Attaching to a man never attaches himself to himself. As I get older, I finally lose my uncle’s interest in falling in love. The more I grow up, the more I feel that I am beautiful, and the more I am reluctant to give up the process of crawling slowly.
Delayed first love
The older a girl grows up, the less willing she is to let herself get hurt. She is afraid of being injured at the age.
Now, Miss Hedgehog is covered in thorns, and her friends around her will avoid being stabbed as far as she can, but she can still come into our life as far as she can. You are scolded by your boss, and she will not comfort you, but she will scream at the top of her lungs and cry. Why don’t you quit? Is it worthwhile to cry? When you chat, you reveal a little idea that you don’t want your mother-in-law to live together, and she will definitely seize this point and hate iron and steel, saying that she will live with her in-laws and drive her away, and her son will divorce if she doesn’t leave. We gradually stopped showing our dissatisfaction with life in front of her, fearing that she would become unwilling because of our affairs. It is true that it is not pretending to be sincere, but that she sincerely wants to be on our side.
Miss Hedgehog is very hard, which is our unanimous evaluation of her life. Independent workers can’t be a little vague. She has never seen her cry once in four or five years, but she has never seen her smile several times. Usually, the company will let her sit in the front row without laughing and enhance the solemnity of the meeting. One day, the leader suddenly jokingly said to her, how about I introduce you to a boyfriend? Before he finished, Miss Hedgehog smashed the documents on the table and turned away. She felt violated.
I didn’t fall in love before because I had to go to my goal for a bright future, but now she’s still full of food and clothing, and she doesn’t think about lust, and she doesn’t want to fall in love. This really makes us friends feel at ease. I didn’t expect a 27-year-old girl to be eclipsed by an old girl before a man held hands and kissed her, so we didn’t prepare her any birthday gift that year, but introduced her to a man. We thought about how romantic it would be if we met our first love on her 27 th birthday.
Men are friends, husbands and friends are handsome, and Miss Hedgehog’s indifference and appearance complement each other. Moreover, she is a soldier and doesn’t like to play jokes. The most important thing is that she has not had much experience in two loves and is suitable for Miss Hedgehog who has never talked about love.
In all kinds of tricks, she was manipulated to sit in front of him and put on a little makeup. It was charming in the warm light. We were deeply whimsical and excited to get rid of the hedgehog smoothly. It was a matter of merit.
An hour later, we waited in her room for the date and came back to her. She collapsed on the sofa with her eyes shining, and we knew that the knot was not so good. It took a long time for her to get over it. She seemed to say, do you know what his girlfriend broke up? When we were thinking about the first date, she had already given us the answer. He said that her ex-girlfriend was fine, but she was too independent. She took her to dinner like a buddy. We were surprised and didn’t come to talk. She continued to ask if she knew what his girlfriend broke up. She still stared at a question and answer. He said,
When she finished, we understood that Miss Hedgehog thought she was his ex-girlfriend, ex-girlfriend complex, because she was very independent. The word "woman Han" was that she sent her a message that she loved cleanliness and asked her not to clean in the office, but we also understood that she was independent for outsiders to see the little girl who arranged flowers, drew pictures and did yoga. So was she. The wallpaper in her room was also cartoon, and all our friends were so sloppy, but she didn’t swear at us. After realizing this, we tried to ask, didn’t you think he was a little better? She said with confused eyes, and I
This blind date was a failure, but we still saw hope. Miss Hedgehog didn’t refuse and took the initiative to understand her wishes, so we stepped up her blind date schedule and got it once a month, because according to this frequency, she could successfully fall in love at the age of 27.
Considering that she is really a little older, she is also willing to accept that we all get together to find the right man except in class, and then wait for a friend to plan activities. We talk day and night to discuss all the details. We are also cautious because this is Miss Hedgehog’s first love, and we have to do it perfectly.
Miss Hedgehog looks in her eyes and hurts in her heart. She tries her best to face each blind date in the fullest state. Every time we prepare red wine at her home, we will tell us when she comes back to celebrate. But half a year later, the bottle of red wine is still there with a thin layer of ash. We have no chance to hit it because Miss Hedgehog always looks sad when she comes back.
He said that he doesn’t wear high-heeled shoes for women. He said that he wants to go into a rage as soon as he hears the rubbing noise on the soles of his shoes. But I wear high-heeled shoes. He said that it is a custom in their hometown that they have to eat noodles but not dumplings during the New Year. Think about what it means for northerners not to eat dumplings during the New Year. He said that because of work, I have to contact many opposite sex, and I hope I don’t care too much. How can I care? He said that if I find two people are not suitable after marriage, he will definitely divorce. Don’t children be the biggest victim?
Every time she comes back from a blind date, she must be sitting on the sofa to analyze the various problems that two people may face after falling in love, so small that they don’t eat any food and so big that their name should be written in the room will be her dissatisfaction.
Every time we ask her, isn’t he a little bit good? She scratches her head and says painfully, I didn’t pay attention. I think whether two people can be together depends on whether they can solve contradictory problems. At my age, I can’t fall in love like a little girl anymore. I must have sex. I must succeed once and I can’t stand breaking up and quarreling again.
But God, what about lovers who don’t quarrel and hurt each other? In love, everyone has to get hurt. A friend is so anxious that he is about to cry. How can you find someone to appreciate if you can see the shortcomings of others and see no advantages at all?
I look at the shortcomings, but some shortcomings can be solved through consultation, which is acceptable to me. The problem is that when I meet them, all of them are I can’t accept the shortcomings. What should I do? I beg you to grovel? Miss Hedgehog is going to cry as she says.
Then we parted. This huge blind date arrangement was like a marathon. At the end, we were tired and Miss Hedgehog was tired. We didn’t do these things again.
Many people cry that they are tired and don’t love because they have experienced too much pain and suffering and lost confidence in love, so they are cautious or picky when dealing with a relationship, while Miss Hedgehog has never experienced a love because she is more careful about a man who may fall in love after being recognized as injured by everyone.
Age is a wonderful thing. A 17-year-old girl can’t blink her boyfriend’s double suicide, while a 27-year-old woman can’t stand it even if her boyfriend quarrels once in public. It’s not that who is more mature than who, but that my shell is getting harder and harder, and the older I get, the less willing I am to let myself get hurt.
However, if two people want to get along with each other at age, they will be overwhelmed with contradictions and injuries. However, some people will find that this is just an ordinary life after gritting their teeth, and some people can’t get through this hurdle. It is said that they are incapable of breaking up with the wrong person, but they don’t say that they love themselves far more than others. The more sad they are, the easier it is to keep the dross in life and love becomes no longer pure.
Young girls, brave enough to love, you should be afraid even if your head is broken and your heart hurts, so that when you grow up, you can realize that you are desperate and you will not become a hedgehog.
Long-distance love is the normal life.
To put it bluntly, the state of long-distance relationship is the daily state after two people get along for a long time.
For couples who break up because of a survey, they must be among the best in different places. Some of them are in different places and slowly can’t hold on. Some of them are in love, and suddenly they have to fall apart from each other, so they always feel less in love and end up breaking up.
Although the chances of breaking up are so great, people will still throw a sentence when they meet the right person. Although we are in a long-distance relationship, I believe that our love will eventually surpass it. These are not problems. The reason is not that we really believe that love can solve problems, but that the word "far away" is mysterious and the sense of expectation will always be touching. Many people are afraid of blind date, not because the blind date is often around, but because the young people who are looking for freshness are always in their hearts. When people can choose love, they will unconsciously refuse to fall in love in the same environment to some extent, and at the same time hold a distant love heart.
Of course, more people are forced to go to different places because of work, etc. Before I naively fell in love with each other, I was sure to solve the distance problem. It’s a big deal to change jobs or leave home to rent a house in another city. Life theory can always be together, but gradually I realized that life is cruel. You can give up money, friends and everything to go to your lover, but everything will also give up you, including you going to your lover. This is a joke of life, not to mention some things that you can’t do without worrying about yourself.
But is a long-distance relationship really that painful? I have heard several girls complain that they hate their boyfriends when they send text messages. Are they all the same? Have you woken up? Have you slept? Besides, there is little to say that they hate missing each other, but they don’t feel lost. They hate wearing the most beautiful clothes and the most exquisite makeup, but their friends applaud them, but they can’t see it. In general, sharing has become an extremely difficult thing. It seems that the future will be the same as breathing.
I’ve heard that the most distressing way to deal with a long-distance relationship is that two people will go home at the first time after work and call faeie until the next morning, so that they can see each other for more than ten hours in a day. They can do other things in their rooms and play with their brains at home from time to time, but it’s enough to know that he is here. She said that she felt extremely happy when she woke up in the middle of the night and heard him snore. She said that I also thought it was a method worth popularizing, but when I saw her again more than a year later, she told me that they broke up.
Isn’t it enough for him to get rid of all kinds of entertainment except class? How different can faeie two people live together? I asked crossly.
She said indecisively, even so, it is not practical for two people to hold hands together.
Well, that’s how most long-distance relationships break up. Because two people have lived long-distance relationships in full swing, they will always be in a comparative position. If you talk to me about love, it will be romantic for two people to buy food hand in hand. Even if I talk for two hours, it will be warm for two people to hug each other. You can travel thousands of miles to see me for a day or two, but if two people can be together, they will not be satisfied with long-distance relationships, and they will suffer a loss.
However, in fact, the state of long-distance love is the normal state of daily life, and it is a stage. After this short period, it will be a long period of ordinary years. Two passionate people will eventually live in the state of long-distance love. They no longer expect to eat together, and when they come home from work, they no longer share the new things of the day. They also feel that it is unnecessary to wish that the other party can live alone for a few days. To put it bluntly, the state of long-distance love is the daily state of two people after long-term relationship.
Dealing with the problems in long-distance love can also be handled well. After two people live together, girls feel dependent and uneasy in their daily life in a long-distance period. All kinds of suspicions will not end with two people living together, because this is essentially a girl’s problem alone. One person’s problem cannot be solved by two people. The same girl complains that the boy is coming to my period, but you can’t bring me brown sugar water. People ask her how to spend her period alone and wait for others to bring brown sugar water.
Now that you think your boyfriend is not romantic enough, you will still think that he is not romantic after you live together. Now that you think that two people have no topic, what should you do after you have talked about it for a long time? Now you are worried that the other person will not be strong, so even after living together, there is a great possibility that two people will break up. Now you are worried that two people have come together through hardships, but their love has been exhausted in the process. So how can ordinary couples cope with a passionate life?
Complaining about long-distance love and being afraid of long-distance love are all due to not believing in yourself and the other person. Because of being away from home, I feel a lot more burdened and stressed. Everything will be hurt. Most long-distance relationships don’t die because two people are not suitable, but because of that heavy fear.
Then don’t treat long-distance love as a rehearsal after two people’s long-term life. Try to understand each other in difficult communication situations and share the feeling of growing up when the other party is not around, so that the two people can grow up steadily. Maybe you will all thank you for this time that has tested you in the next day.
Chapter V How many years will a girl live alone?
I think a girl must live alone for a few years, not a month and a half, but one year less. Just like training, letting a girl live alone is not to exercise her ability to cook at home, but to get along with herself. In a woman’s life, it is more important than getting along with herself. It is the lifeblood of a woman.